I enjoyed observing parent-teacher conferences. It was an interesting experience because they occurred in the middle of third quarter. My cooperating teacher and I believe this occurred due to the PARCC testing that will occur at the end of third quarter. The conferences were also interesting because they were invite-only or by parent request. This is different from the fall conferences where the teacher has to meet with all students. My cooperating teacher chose to invite twelve parents of students that have been consistently below grade level. Most of these students are English Language Learners and have special needs, so the ELL teacher, a translator, and the special education teacher were at the conference as well. This was interesting because I always thought of parent-teacher conferences as a conference between the parents and the teacher. However, this is not the case in a very diverse classroom like mine. Also, I found it interesting that two parents did not show up to their conferences since the teacher specifically invited them to conferences. Additionally, many parents brought their children with them. It was a bit strange to have the children in the room, but they were respectful during the conferences.
My cooperating teacher prepared folders of test scores in math, reading, and science for the parents. She went over the scores with the parents and explained that students are assessed by district components, so there is no overall grade in any subject. I was proud that many of the students did well on their math tests since math was my first subject that I took over as a student teacher. I was happy that my countless efforts and times I spent reteaching students did make a difference.
My cooperating teacher discussed progress and multiplication and division facts as well. She explained that students would take a test at the end of the year with all the multiplication and division facts. Therefore, she emphasized the importance of practicing these facts with students at home. My cooperating teacher also discussed how the students’ reading scores have improved since the beginning of the school year. I found this data valuable because it really shows parents where students stand in relation to grade level standards and how students have improved. Many of our students are below grade level, which is not surprising due to the high level of needs in the classroom. However, the good thing is that all of the students increased their reading levels. I realized that it is important to focus on the positive comments about the students and sandwich negative comments with positive comments. My cooperating teacher told me that I could only add positive comments, and I enjoyed saying them. My students may be low and have many needs, but they are making improvements. I really enjoyed bragging about the students’ improvements and I could tell that the parents enjoyed hearing my positive comments as well.
There were a few interesting conferences that stuck out to me. One student came in with his brother instead of his parents. I found it a bit strange that the brother attended the conference. However, I know that many of my students have teachers for parents who work long hours like my cooperating teacher and myself. I always try to think of a student’s background when assessing a situation with a student. My cooperating teacher did a great job of considering the student’s backgrounds during the conferences. She always heard the parents out first, and then she addressed what she’s seeing in the classroom. It’s important to be on the same team as the parent and work together to help the child. Another interesting conference was one about a student with an IEP for a learning disability. My cooperating teacher and I have noticed that this student has trouble paying attention during instruction, which is not on her IEP. She always looks very tired and not engaged in the lesson. My cooperating teacher addressed her concerns with the parent. The parent told us that sometimes she wakes up in the middle of the night and finds her child playing games on her iPad. This shocked me but it also explained why the child always looks tired during class. I really hope that the parent monitors her child more so she is not playing on an iPad instead of sleeping. I realized that there’s only so much I can do to help my students. I can help them as much as possible in the classroom and communicate with the parents, but I cannot control what the parents do.
Overall, I enjoyed attending parent-teacher conferences. It was a long night, but I learned a lot and I’m glad that I was able to meet some parents. One thing I would have done differently is prepared ahead of time. My cooperating teacher did some of her preparation at the last minute. She realized that she did not have test scores for some of the students during conferences. However, I struggle with thinking through my plans and planning at the last minute. Therefore, I understand how hard it is to think everything through in advance. Luckily, my cooperating teacher knows her students very well. She did not need notes or test scores to talk about her students because she spends so much time working with them and discussing them with specialists and other teachers. Overall, teachers should know their students, prepare for parent-teacher conferences, and communicate with parents in a positive way.