By Jessica Abraham
Starting off anything new can be extremely challenging. Whether it’s the basics like learning how to add numbers or mastering the art of tying our shoes, we’ve all begun in unfamiliar territory and gradually found our footing. When I first arrived at this University, I was filled with hesitation and uncertainty about the future because it was something new. But now, as someone who has successfully navigated through her freshman year and is well into her third year, I can look back and see areas where I could’ve approached things differently, both mentally and physically. So below, I just have a short list of pieces of advice I would give to a first year student.
First and foremost, I would say that time management is key to getting through college. I firmly believe that there’s always a way to balance what you love to do with what you must do. One way that I keep my time management in check is by using Google Calendar. It wasn’t until my sophomore year that I discovered Google Calendar, and it truly was a game changer. The color-coding system for my RSOs, classes, hangouts, and more makes each day purposeful and efficient. Anyway, that was just a mini spiel on why Google Calendar is amazing. The point is that planning ahead – be it a week or even just a few days – can dramatically reduce stress. I really wish I learned this my freshman year because I truly think it would have lessened my stress load by just a little bit.
Secondly, I would say that you should definitely get more involved in RSO’s here. I know, I know – this advice seems to be on repeat for every freshman, but it genuinely holds value. As a freshman at quad day, it can be extremely daunting to see the five million stalls spread across the quad. However, remember you don’t need to join all of them. Joining even one can be transformative to your college journey.
Next, I would like to say it’s completely understandable if you’re still unsure of what you want to do in the future. Remember, as a freshman, you are still young and just beginning your journey. At this stage, it’s natural to not have all the answers regarding your preferences and passions. So even if you had to apply to the University of Illinois for a specific major, college offers a vast landscape of opportunities for everyone. It’s a time to delve into subjects and experiences you might not have encountered in high school. Therefore, rather than viewing uncertainty as an adversary, consider it an invitation to growth and exploration.
I would also say to keep an open mind when it comes to forming close friendships. The pressure to find your perfect friend can lead you to overlook some really good people. Life can sometimes be a true rollercoaster and you never know when the most meaningful connections can form.
Finally, I would like to emphasize the importance of not comparing yourself with your peers. The University of Illinois is home to many individuals with diverse backgrounds, and it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and start measuring your progress with others. Such comparisons, however, are often counterproductive and only undermine your own confidence. So, forget about comparing yourself to others and always strive to be the best version of yourself. When you reflect on your college journey after four years, I promise that you’ll see the remarkable growth you’ve achieved.
Overall, I truly hope that you were able to take something out of this and I wish you all the very best for your years ahead!