Anyone interested in relationships and concerned about intimate partner violence has to think about the NFL football player, Ray Rice, and his violence against his fiancee/wife.  Here are a series of some of most thoughtful discussions of this episode.

vox: How Abusers Destroy the very tools women need to escape them

NBC segment:  Why She Stayed...

PBS Newshour discussion with Violence Prevention Advocate.

Buzzfeed summary of “Why I Stayed” Tweets.

Twitter hashtags:  Why I Stayed  and  Why I Left

James Brown (CBS Football commentator) talk to men about domestic violence.