Introduction
Sexual Education policy is different in every state. The information students are required to learn can vary drastically from state to state, district to district, and even school to school. Two teenagers may have completely different levels of sexual education just because they live in different school districts. Several types of education might emphasis moral beliefs. Many schools are taught abstinence only sexual education, and many states have policies limiting what can be said about homosexuality. Several schools leave out information on different forms of contraception and consent. I would like to demonstrate the dangers of ambiguity in sexual education, and propose solutions to increase student’s knowledge on sexual education.
Personal Experience
I am from a very small, rural, Baptist town. I was taught abstinence only sexual education in high school. The instruction was only one class period. We were shown pictures of STDs, and shown a tape demonstration. During the tape demonstration, the teacher put tape on one of the boy’s arms. She ripped it off, and exposed the torn out hair to the class. She repeated this step with three other boys. By the fourth boy the tape did not stick. The tape was meant to demonstrate a person having sex with multiple partners. We were given no information on consent.
Why it’s important
Several high school students will graduate with out adequate safe knowledge on sexual education. Many of these students will go into the working world or to college with out knowing information on anatomy, contraception, STDs, and sexual consent. If students do not understand the basic anatomy of sex organs they do not fully understand their own bodies. Understand forms of contraception are crucial for individuals to protect themselves from unwanted pregnancies and STDs. Students need to understand how to use a condom. They need to understand there are several options for birth control, and where they can go to get it. They need to understand the basics on various STDs, and where they can confidentially get tested. According to The Office of Adolescent Health, “every time that individuals have sexual intercourse will reduce the risk of unwanted pregnancy. In addition to using a contraceptive method that protects against pregnancy, using condoms correctly with every sex act from start to finish will reduce the risk of HIV and other STDs for males and females.”
It is also very important schools teach consent. At college campuses it is evident many students do not have a clear understanding of sexual consent. Clearing the ambiguity will decrease confusion when it comes to sex. Students must also be aware of the community resources if they are victims of sexual violence. It is also important students understand sexual fluidity in who they are attracted to in order to become more tolerant of the LGBTQIA community.
There are also many very dangerous demonstrations being used in schools. One example is the tape demonstration I mentioned in the personal information. The tape demonstration implies a person is less valuable based on the number of sexual partners they have had. Some more examples include comparing individuals to a chewed up piece of gum or dirty shoes. This perpetuates the gendered idea that is the woman’s job to say no and stay pure. It is also incredibly dangerous for that belief to be taught to survivors of sexual assault. Survivors need to know they are not less valuable because of what happened to them.
Facts
- 22 states mandate children receive sexual education (Answer).
- 13 states require instruction be medically accurate (Answer).
- In 8 states there are laws considerably limiting what teachers can say about homosexuality to their students.
- It is estimated that the percentage of completed or attempted rape victimization among women in higher educational institutions may be between 20% and 25% over the course of a college career (Campus Sexual Violence).
- Among college women, 9 in 10 victims of rape and sexual assault knew their offender (Campus Sexual Violence).
- Almost 12.8% of completed rapes, 35% of attempted rapes, and 22.9% of threatened rapes happened during a date (Campus Sexual Violence).
Conclusion
In conclusion, sexual education in the United States is too inconsistent to offer an equal chance of information to all students in the United States. Not all students will have the equal knowledge on contraception to know how to prevent themselves from STDs and unwanted pregnancies. Not all students have accurate information on what consent is, and not all students are taught unbiased information on homosexuality. Many even harmful demonstrations are being used to demonstrate devaluing an individual because they have had sex, which hinder the safety and mental health of students.
Recommendations
I propose that at least a basic knowledge of anatomy, contraception, STDs, and consent become mandatory for every high school nationally. I also purpose harmful demonstrations be taken out of any credited sexual education program. I also propose a basic understanding of sexual fluidity, homosexuality, and tolerance be integrated into the federal sexual education curriculum. This is asking a lot for now, but I feel our country would be able to take baby steps to integrate these proposals. I believe these proposals will help make knowledge on sexual education available and accurate to everyone in the United States.